I Hate When A Single Gal Gets Told What She Already Knows

As a Single Gal, the quest to finding Dreamy Mc-Dreamy can be a wee bit disheartening. I feel, as a Single Gal myself, we Gal's are on the search to find Perfect Mc-Perfect. Blinded by the confusion between Dreamy Mc-Dreamy and Perfect Mc-Perfect can ultimately alter the way you pick and choose your quests(also referred to as dates). Now what we Single Gals need to understand and comprehend before we go on our quests, Perfect Mc-Perfect unfortunately is only but a fairy tale and a far off dream. Unfortunately Gals, we are talking about the male specimen here... they, like us, are undoubtedly flawed... and definitely don't have a clue when it comes to being a sweetie and wiping the seatie, if you pick up my drift! When your Prince Charming Fella comes stumbling into your life, even then, will there be things that he will do, that will, in all reality, drive you up the wall. He too can be your Prince Charming Fella and your Dreamy Mc-Dreamy all in one package, but only if you can decide that you can love them for who they are completely, flaws and all! That's ultimately what makes your fairy tale so great. The fairy tale would be boring if Prince Charming Fella were flawless... yes it would be a lovely time to have everything in order all the time... but how would love grow if everything were perfect?? As Single Gals, we can't let our Prince Charming Fella pass us by without us knowing it. We too must realize that no person on this earth is a perfect soul... but once you find your Prince Charming Fella, you will stop comparing him to your idea of what your Perfect Mc-Perfect might be, and will be willing to look past the petty things that have once held you back.. Then you will know that with this Fella.. it will all be worth it.

When somebody really loves you they will never ask you to change the person that you are at heart. Loving someone for who they are is essentially loving all of the qualities of a person, even if those qualities may not be that great. Loving someone for what they are and what you want them to be isn't love at all. Love someone for the good that is exposed from them, for the way that they show you that they care about you, and the way that they are themselves in every facet of their lives. Love someone for who they are and not because you think or want them something else that they are not at the moment. When somebody really loves you they will never ask you to compromise who you really are as a person, but instead will only ask you to show everybody who you really are as a person.